Love is lost, heart is gone

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

a short intro of life. written by me and myself.

what is life? why is our life at this age such a difficult and curel thing?
why, in any form, makes our life something difficult and sad, angry, emotional,happy?

in life, they are spilt up to 3 main cataglogy.

1st: love relationship.
what are they? true love? does they exist?
in your mind, for thoes who are already blinded by love, their answer will be , definity yes ! my hubby / darling treat me so well, i can get what ever i want with just a snap of my finger by noticing him/her. but, think again, is this true love?
what really is true love?
someone to held an umbrella when u are standing in the rain.
someone who is willing to lend u a listening ear when u needed.
someone who would spare his /her shoulder for you to cry on.
someone who willing to spend his/her rest of their life with you happily.
something that are so closely bond that nothing, even god, cant seperate both.
something that made u cry on but at the same time, u reflect on what u did wrong and offered an apology.
something that made u bold and brave to stand infront for your loved one.

this, is true love.
easier said then done right?
on this earth, how many is able to react the same as all the point listed on top?

why? why must our life have love relationship?
even though ppl said, love is like a poison, if u dont get an antidote, the poison is just going to hurt u deeper and deeper.
its true, in reality, this does, and many who cant restand the poison would fade off from earth.
unlike fairytale, to love and live happily ever after, for ever and ever and ever.. blah blah blah. no way it will exist. not on earth.

so, why, even students and teenagers had an love r/s. going out and ask, ask 20 teens, i can garentee, all of them would have at least one crush or even had a stead.
but when things turn bad, u began to ask, why did i fall in love with him/her?
earth seems unfair to u, but, look.
if u do not pass though all this problem, how would u react in future?
this is part of god's life lesson to you.
those who could not pass the test, u suicide. and u failed the test,your life,your family,your friends and yourself.

this is one of the life lesson for human like us on earth.

2nd : friendship.
close friend, BBF (best friend forever) friends,
sound normal, can be seen all over the place.
BBF, calling out for each other like drinking water, but when it comes to misunderstanding/betraying, wat do u do? break off friendship tiles? feeling sad, sorrow, asking why did u ever meet up with such a jerk? but, think again, why would u have a friend?

life lesson number 2. friendship. why friendship?
primary school, the most common phrase u can hear : '' U MAKE ME ! I DONWAN FRIEND U LIAO !'' etc etc. that are just normal anger of words.

in secondary school, u can hear this : '' wa, u good, friend wan do till like tt, %@^*$%@$%@''. hurtful words pouring out of ur mouth. anger of words.

but, without friends, who are you? nothing. u stand in no position in the human race and human socility. human became very selfish, thinking only for themself. is this what you want?. god gave us a heart, to accept friends in your life, so that u learn from them. god made human a unperfect being. terms like '' no one is perfect''came into picture.
friendship, are for you to treasure. as u grow older, of course, u will be having more friends, but, as friends getting more and more, u began to hear conflict against your friends. being trapped as a middle person dont feel good.everyone knew it.

u began to hate god for giving u these friends, u tried to escape, hiding in your room, ignoring what is happening in the outside world, will this solve anything? NO. because i tell you, in future, your life is just going to repeat the same as your past. just that its in a more difficult mode.

if u dont learn to solve it now, who is going to help you in future?. god gave us a heart to accept friends, fate assign us to meet difference kind of friends. they dont do it for the sick of doing, but, to educate mankind about life.

friend are here to give you comments and opinion they think its right to help to change you. gradly accept the opinions, change as they guide u to. listen to the good one. knowing yourself whats right and whats wrong. our friends are just like a piece of mirror. they can reflect on how you look like. learn to accept, try to change. and u will know, how beautiful this world can be.

now for part 3, family.
who are your family?
mother,father,slibings
why are they here? most common logic answer is, to give birth of you.
but thats not the main point.

they are here for u to share ur problem with, when you 1st opened your eye, when u are still young and innocent, u dont know who to depend on. your heart of friendship aint opened fully yet. the only peson u can talk to is your family.

why? they are your only kin. the same type of blood flows inside your body.
god gave us different kind of parents for different purpose.

kind and caring parents > they are here to teach u and allow you to know that this world, there is love if u can find it .

normal and average parents > to teach you from young that this world is not a easy place to live in. you have to fight and strive to survive.

mean and devilish parents > beat you up for no reason, giving an idea that this world is a very curel place to live in, people, even your kin can hurt you that much, made you wanted to leave this world quickly.

but when this happened, for those child with mean and devilish parents, friendship came into picture. they treat each other with all their love and trust, as they felt that this world, there are no more people they can relay and put their trust on.
there are positive and negative answer on this.

but, the main problem is : why do god assign us with different kind of parents?
as said on top, to educate us. HOW? people will argue back with : '' your parent everyday wack you like a punching bag, ill-treat you and even hurt you with heat and etc, u call that educate ? '' well, they are more on a hush type of education.

if you don't hate, u won't love. thats the most basic principle.
same as if you don't love, you won't hate.
what does it link to education for our life?

in life, out there in the world, there can be even more worst type of things happening. god's purpose of placing different personality parents with you so that, they can give you an impact in your life. to tell you, it isn't easy to live.

other parents, who were nice and caring, were just to tell you, life can be easy to live with, if you open your heart and accept all positive.

that were all assigned by god and fate. this is a life where we cant escape from.

if you are still feeling upsad over things in life, those impact that u cannot take it, its ok, releast it out to someone you trust, listen to their words.
approach a couceller is also not a bad idea. just tell yourself, you are not alone on this world.

if you need, u can even contact me though msn @ spongebob_sin@hotmail.com
share with me your problem, i can help you with my own way (:

thats the end of my intro of life. hope you like it (:

Labels: live you life your way, no one can judge you with it, they can leave comment, you can choose to accept or reject.

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